Kindbold: A simple act of kindness that requires some boldness

I created a new word: Kindbold. It is an act of kindness that requires varying measures of boldness. Example: introducing yourself to someone sitting alone in the lunch room. It’s kindness because they have someone to sit with, and it requires boldness on your part. It’s not holding the door open for someone. That is an act of kindness, but doesn’t really require any boldness.

God has used kindbolds a lot in my life. Some of the people that I have had the most impact on are people I have met or really deepened friendships through a simple kindbold. Here are a couple of examples:

  • I sat with a guy who I had seen in our dorm, but never met, over breakfast. And two years later, after we had both moved off campus and didn’t really see each other anymore, he stills remembers that first time I pulled a kindbold and sat with him.
  • One time my roommate and I were riding our bikes home, we had broken expectations and were just frustrated at each other. He stopped me and started a kindbold by asking a hard question and being vulnerable. This has been one factor in our great relationship today.
  • Sharing your story and the story of the gospel are great examples of kindbolds. This requires varying amounts of boldness and really is showing your friend kindness and love.

When we are looking for kindbolds to perform in our everyday routine, my experience is that God uses your willingness for his glory. Kindbolds. A simple act of kindness that requires some boldness. Keep your eyes open for them.

Language, food, lifestyle… Is it worth it?

1st Corinthians 9:22 “I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some.” 

From the experience I have ministering in a different cultural context and to people in the U.S, I can testify to one very important principle that Paul stressed in 1 Corinthians 9:22. After spending a month in Central Asia I had a friend ask me, “Do you really want to learn the language here?” And he proceeded to ask why I was in the country. I told him that I did desire to learn the language, but I struggled to do so. Also, while spending time in this country I was told to try many different foods. Foods that the people I was ministering to absolutely loved, and if I were to say how much I disliked some of the food or how disgusting it looked or tasted I may have completely destroyed any chance at sharing Christ with them. An experience that I have had in the U.S in becoming all things to all people is going to where they’re at. I have, and will go joyfully to the bars or parties; as well I would go for a long run, rock climbing, or bowling, for sake of winning some to Christ. It is often a struggle to go into these situations, but the reward of their salvation is far greater than any feeling or struggle I might go through. So, is it worth it? Is it worth eating nasty food, learning a language, or going into sketchy situations that others might be saved? If you truly love the people you are going to, the answer will always be “yes.” In the following link John Piper speaks about becoming all things to all people that some might be saved. Ultimately he asks this question. Are you passionate about the salvation of others?

John Piper: Becoming all things to all people that some might be saved

The Power of Asking

We were told this story by a dear brother:

December 5, 1994, was a significant day in my life. Not because I had to drive back late that night from Gig Harbor to Seattle in snow and ice. But because of a story I heard from Doug Coe that has given me a completely new understanding of what it means to pray.

That night Doug Coe, who is a remarkable man of faith, told this story about his friend Bob. Bob was a new believer, searching about to understand what it all meant. One day he asked Doug, his good friend: “Doug, do you really believe what the Bible says about moving mountains when we pray?” Doug thought about it and answered “Sure.” Bob was incredulous and asked him, “Do you mean to say that you believe that if I prayed for a mountain to move, that it would move?” Doug thgouht for a while and the conversation went something like this”

“Let me put it this way. I not only believe it, but I will make you a bet. A $500 bet. Bob what do you know about Africa?”

“Nothing”

“What do you think about when you think of Africa?”

“I think about monkeys swinging from trees.”

“Then here is the bet. I want you to pray for 45 days, ‘God help Africa.’ You can’t miss a single day. And that’s all you have to pray, ‘God help Africa.’ At the end of the 45 days, you will be the judge on whether any mountains have moved. If you think a mountain has moved, you pay me $500. If you don’t think a mountain has moved, you just tell me, and I will pay you $500, no questions asked.”

Bob, being an astute businessman, rather liked the odds. He accepted the bet. And he began to pray daily, “God Help Africa.”

Just a few days later, he was at dinner and sat next to an elderly lady. In the course of the conversation, he found out she lived in Uganda, and ran an orphanage there. He began asking her a number of questions about Uganda and Africa. After a while, she finally asked him why he was so interested in Africa. To which he responded, with some embarrassment, “you’ll never believe this, but I made a bet with a good friend,” and proceeded to tell her about his bet with Doug Coe. By the end of the evening she invited him to return to Uganda with her in a few days to visit the orphanage. He accepted the invitation.

Coming back to the U.S. he got a few friends together and bought a load of toys and clothes, and sent them to Uganda. the following week, he got a phone call from the woman at the orphanage: “Mr. Bob, the children are so grateful for what you did for them, they would love it if you could come again so they can make a special presentation to you to show you their appreciation. Cam you come? He accepted the invitation  and was off to Uganda, again.

After a very heartwarming ceremony at the orphanage, there was a phone call for Bob. From the President of Uganda. He had heard about the gifts, and called to thank him personally and on behalf of his country, for what Bob had done for the orphans. He also invited Bob to visit him that afternoon.

When Bob arrived that afternoon for his appointment, the President was just in the middle of rushing out of his office. He apologized that he had to go off to some appointments, but invited Bob to come along so they could get acquainted in the car. Bob accepted. Along the way, at one of the stops, Bob looked out the window to see what appeared to be a stockyard; only this was a stockyard not filled with cattle, but with men. Bob asked the President what he was seeing. The President responded that it was a political prison, and those mene were his political enemies. The conversation went something like this:

But Mr. President, that is not right to have men living in such horrible conditions. You must let them go.”

“But those are my political enemies; men who have tried to subvert my authority. I cannot let them go. That would be foolish.”

“You have to let them go; it’s just not right to that human beings would have to live in those conditions.”

the conversation didn’t las long, and shortly thereafter Bob was back at home in the USA.  About a week after getting back, he received a phone call. This time it was the State Department, asking him to come to a meeting with the Undersecretary for African Affairs.

Rather puzzled over the purpose of such a meeting, he nevertheless went to the appointment. At the meeting, the Undersecretary and Bob had a conversation along these lines:

“Bob, on behalf of the Government of the United States, I want to thank you for what you have done in Uganda.”

“What? The U.S. Government is thanking me for sending some toys to some orphans in Uganda.”

“No, Bob. It is about political prisoners.”

“What about the political prisoners?”

“The president of Uganda recently released the political prisoners, which is something our government has been trying to get him to do for years, without success. He told us after taking this action that he was doing it because of what you said to him.”

“What I said to him?”

“Yes. What exactly did you say to him?”

Needless to say, Bob was flabbergasted. But the story doesn’t end there. After the State Department meeting, the President of Uganda called Bob over the phone, and asked him to return to Uganda to help him form a new Cabinet for his country.

“But Mr. President, I don’t know anything about your country or the people who would best serve in your government. I am just an American businessman. How can I possibly help you choose a cabinet?”

Bob went and did what he could to help the President select his new ministers. And since that time, a close friendship has developed between Bob, American businessman and the President of Uganda.

And as you can guess, after those 45 days of praying, “God help Africa,” Bob sent Doug Coe a check for $500.

The Method of the Believer

To finish the “M” pack lets look at “how” the believer can accomplish the Mission. Read the others before this one.

The Method:

It’s simple, we do as Jesus did. Discipleship. In the end of Matthew Jesus tells his disciples to go and make disciples. Did you catch that? Disciples making more disciples.

2 Timothy 2:2, “And what you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful men who will be able to teach others.” So Paul is discipling Timothy to disciple faithful men who will be able to disciple others. This is the Biblical example. It’s what Barnabas did with Saul (later Paul). It’s what Paul did to Timothy (and many others).

So the foreign worker goes to another nation and begins to disciple the locals who then begin discipling other locals. This process continues and soon the foreign worker is no longer needed. Once his/her grandkids (spiritually) start discipling, the process (by God’s grace) has become self-sustaining and indigenous. Thus the foreigner has worked him/herself out of the need to be there.

Of course this process can take many years. Be faithful with who He brings along to disciple and like John the Baptist said, “”A man can receive nothing unless it has been given him from heaven (John 3:27).”

Discipleship is the method that Jesus used, He preached crazy things to the masses, but always explained things,  stuck close, and taught the twelve disciples separately. Going is the Mandate, a self-sustaining indigenous church is the Mission, and discipleship is the Method.

The Mission of the Believer

Alright, round two of the “M” series.

The Mission:

Many people have a skewed idea of what the Mission of the believer is. As we learned in the Mandate, we are to Go to the nations, but what are we trying to accomplish by going to the nations? Are we there to pray, are we there to build buildings or schools, are we trying to save as many as possible, what is the mission, what is the end goal?

The goal or mission of the believer in another country is to cultivate and create an indigenous self-sustaining group of Christ followers. The goal is to work yourself out of the job. Lets break this down:

I can share my faith best with those in my own culture. Someone coming from France to America is not able to speak English as well, relate as well as an American can (don’t get me wrong though, it’s only God who saves). In many former Soviet countries Christianity is the Russian Religion and has nothing to do with the locals, but when a person of the same people group believes in this Jesus, the curiosity starts. So the goal of a foreign believer is more so to equip locals than focus everything on evangelism.

That explains why we want an indigenous group, what about the self-sustaining part of the Mission? Self-sustaining will be able to, as it says, be self-sustaining in that people group without the need for foreign support. Making sure that it won’t die out within the next generation or two. We will look at this more in the next “M” post.

So once this is accomplished the foreign believer has essentially worked him/herself out of the need to be there! All of this is by the Grace and will of the Father of course.

It’s a beautiful picture.

The Mandate of the Believer

We are going to do a quick three “M” pack in the next couple of days.

The Mandate:

Mandate is defined as, “An official order or commission to do something.” So what is our Mandate as believers?

Matthew 28:18-20, “Then Jesus came near and said to them, “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations,baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe everything I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

Mark 15:16, “Then He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to the whole creation.”

Luke 24:45-49, “Then He opened their minds to understand the Scriptures. He also said to them, “This is what is written: The Messiah would suffer and rise from the dead the third day, and repentance for forgiveness of sins would be proclaimed in His name to all the nations, beginning at Jerusalem. You are witnesses of these things. And look, I am sending you what My Father promised. As for you, stay in the city until you are empowered from on high.”

John 20-21, “Jesus said to them again, “Peace to you! As the Father has sent Me, I also send you.”

Acts 1:8, “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come on you, and you will be My witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”

If the Mandate isn’t clear, read these passages again. Go. Preach. We are being sent. Proclaim. Disciple.

To the whole world!

The Great Suggestion (I mean Commission)…

Most of us could quote the Great Commission in Matthew 28:18-20. Despite it being memorized, I don’t think we understand it or act on what it means.

18 Then Jesus came near and said to them, “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. 19 Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,20 teaching them to observe everything I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.

Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations. Here Jesus commands you and I, plus everyone who calls themselves followers of Christ, to what? To go and make disciples of all nations. Everyone. He doesn’t say, “Peter and John go make disciples of the nations, and the rest of you stay here.” Rather Jesus commands, “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations.”

Many of us say, “I don’t feel called.” I say our attitude should be “I’ve been commanded, it doesn’t matter if I’ve ‘been called’ or not!”

Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations!

The Go…

Do you ever feel the urge to just get up and go? I have multiple times; in fact that’s one reason I am in the Black Hills of South Dakota instead of somewhere near home in Minnesota. As a follower of Jesus I am led to “Go” a lot. Sometimes He leads me to go to my neighbor, sometimes a friend, or even a person or place that I never would have thought of going in a million years. There is rarely an immediate answer or reason for why I am often led to go in this way. The only reason I do ever decide to “go” is because I trust that the Person I am going for has a purpose, He has a plan, and His way is perfect (check Psalm 18:30, Rom 12:2, Deut 32:4)

All through the book of Acts we see Paul going places and being led into sketchy situations. Acts 16:6-10 gives us an example of what it looks like to be in tune with the Spirit and going or not going to places He leads you to go. Where or who is the Father leading you to share the good news of Jesus? When God calls you to “Go” are you willing, even in the midst of uncertainty as to where, who, or why?

Think of Abraham in Gen 12, or Gideon in Judges 6:11-16

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